Tell your child why the timid cry at 08:22 on December 17, 2008 Fear is the most common emotional reaction is one of the individual to protect themselves from harm the natural attributes. But people would not work too timid to relate to people, so that physical and mental health are affected. Some parents believe that a child is small, timid is normal, grown up on the big bolder. but more parents find it: the child class can not raise their hands to speak, not to participate in group activities; scared to leave home, afraid of the dark, fear alone at home, not a person to sleep; little things would make him burst into tears; temper at home, particularly outside, just like a worm hh but honestly these problems is not a simple problem of temper and need a psychiatrist to help solve. Generally speaking, children of all ages will have their own fear of thunder .2-year-olds are afraid, afraid of animals, fear of bathing, fear of parental leave, etc.; 5-year-old afraid of the dark, afraid of alone; 6-year-old fears the most, they were afraid of certain sounds, afraid of ghosts, fear of abandonment, fear of sleeping alone, fear of wind and rain, and was bleeding, etc.; 7-year-old imagination is very rich, they fear under the bed ghosts, afraid of the night someone broke into house, afraid of war or some little things of life; eight-year-old children much less fear, they are mainly afraid of losing face and to be mocked. psychologists found that if there is no fear of childhood properly resolved, probably in adult psychological problems or mental disorders. For example, children separated from their parents fear the terrorist will have the school; stammer are speaking of a particular class of laughter, after generating social phobia and so on. Why would a child do fear ? This is the child's own brain function, the way parents rearing. the child's response to the outside world through the sense organs to obtain the first information about the outside world, passing a comprehensive analysis of the brain, the child's response to the outside world through the sensory organs for the first outside information, after passing a comprehensive analysis of the brain, respond appropriately, then the command action. If the central nervous system is too sensitive to outside information amplification, respond appropriately, and direct action. If the central nervous system is too sensitive to outside information to enlarge, then the emotional response will be beyond the proper level. For example, the brain vestibular balance system is too sensitive, especially so children will be out of the emotional response should be. Do not be afraid climb, afraid to take the balance beam, such as tactile system is too sensitive to motion sickness, can affect relationships, others may be inadvertently touched him -, he was considered to play him. will appear to eat hand, picky partial eclipse, playing genitals, temper temper, love arouses other symptoms. Why is there a sensitive brain systems symptoms? The reason there are inherent also acquired, including the mother, threatened abortion during pregnancy, emotional stress, pregnancy exercise less; birth, dystocia, cesarean section; birth restrictions on the activities of the child after too many small children cuddle, caress and less. If the child has emerged the issue, you can also go through specialized psychological training to resolve. In addition, parents rearing issues, including the child over protection, the pain of minor injuries and little fuss, over limit their children's contact with the outside world, so that children are always living under the protection of their parents, to protect themselves seriously back. So, at home so, so long to boldly expose our children to wear life practice. long to boldly expose our children to hone life. the child's timid, in fact, just the strange guests or the environment arising from the response, though timid and not much of a problem, find the single game that Battlefield 2 Download Download _ , but the children too timid, can cause a series of problems, to prevent children from developing normal social interaction. a long time, timid child will exhibit introverted, quiet, lack of confidence, not assertive, etc., in the character formation of children critical period, parents should encourage children to cross this road of timid interpersonal barriers, you may wish to try the following method: playing However, you should pay attention to what he usually prefers to play games. many of the timid child prefer to play some quiet without damaging the game, such as reading, painting, puzzles, building blocks and so on, and small partners than to play with, he may prefer to play alone. you should encourage him more to outdoor sports, outdoors and more than play games with small partners. For children, timid, try to play the sand, catch insects, shoot the ball, etc. ; dirty can help children overcome the psychological timid. However, parents should Shuadian small How much? you should encourage him. that much, the children get used to. in encouraging children to speak at the same time, you can teach him the proper use of polite language, so people will be more like your children. For children, also increased self-confidence to speak. the sooner the students themselves more afraid of is if your child is timid, you should reflect on life in peacetime is not too much protection to the child? too much protection and do it only to the child's hands and feet shackled, a long time, the children love to explore new things and become a. children to 2 years of age, you can begin to develop his self-care ability, from the beginning of their sleep, to their own toilet, their grooming, dress himself, feed himself, pick up their toys. self-care ability of the child than those preschool children because children are playing the same game is easy to become friends. If your child is introverted, timid, then told his kindergarten teacher, allowing teachers to arrange more outgoing and bold children to play with him. conditional so, you can also plot a child to find outgoing neighbors kids, so they often play together. timid child Dadalielie need to encourage some children, have done something wrong even to say a few words he has no problem . can be criticized timid child, you should pay attention to your wording. as far as possible to encourage the main, do not inadvertently hurt in the verbal child's self-esteem. usually, do not put kids in front of others, timid Small children are often not in a group of children, timid. This is a vicious cycle of self-confidence against children. You might find a few small children, children younger than make them and play with your children. your child is timid, but because of the age than other children large, the game he will be in active position. no matter what game to play out any ideas, he will naturally become the children of the that their children grow up What is the problem? your child have any fear? now getting better and better living conditions, more favorable environment for the child's growth, however, why so many parents that the child timid? Is the child's problem? or parent education approach the problem? first class tell the truth speaker : Li Li, a good mother a good year, our house 5 years old, his father and I are foreign engineers busy at work. Lee well brought up his grandparents. His 3-year-old kindergarten, the grandparents went back home, and We have invited a good part-time day school Lee. find a good Li timid introvert in his 3-year-old half-time. I took him to attend a friend's wedding that day, to a lot of good general large and Li children, little boys, little girls together, chasing to catch up in time, fooling around, is very happy. may well look like a timid Lee rural children, took my clothes, head down, do not say anything . I will be good to the group of Li, the middle child, he was like a wooden-like, standing there motionless. After a child, there is a naughty boy ran to push him, he instinctively step back and threw me looking for help. I am very angry, yelled at him: go to public places. father of the baby has a different point of view. He said, the child may be timid because he had been with grandparents, and less opportunity to contact the outside world, now more than take him out, exercise it. This After his father as long as the entertainment, we must take him. to Lee are getting good performance let us down, his mouth was in front of outsiders do not even opened, and asked him, he only shook his head or nod, harm Debu people familiar comfort us: Grandma and Grandpa had to sleep, sleep with us now. book says 5-year-old child can separate bed. However, Li has steadfastly refused a person a good sleep, that is afraid of the wolf ran off with him. So I fell asleep while he will hold to his small room next door. He woke up at midnight, and wailed, I'm cruel whether he, his father can not bear, in turn he brought back to our bed. After this, God is always disturbed by the child to bed at night to wake up many times, each will reach out and touch woke up his father or me. I told him they really hate pity. timid and shy child, and the other children do not love, I think that may be the reason he was not confident. So, I gave him two specialty classes reported?? hosts art classes and small classes, I hope he has a specialty on the basis of the enhanced self-confidence. But a month later, the two Class teachers are implicitly told us: always refused to finish the painting a picture; let him learn to recite poems along with television, storytelling, he cried straight to sleep. we are angry, anxious and also shot his father beat him. He cried to refuse to return home looking for grandparents to go. Hearing this, I angry about it. tell the truth, I think children's character is his timid grandparents spoiled. What is it they do not let the baby grandchildren, always afraid he hurt too much , and closed on, in order to let the children listen, they did not go without the illusion of ghosts and goblins to scare his people. However, Yuanguai go Yuanguai, the child timid character has been formed, how do we help him to correct the weak points? s Second, why the child class instance of the formation of a timid character? Lee a good mother already told us the answer: it is because grandparents spoiled child, the child protection and there are too many; to have threatened the child, the child psychologically cast a shadow; children living range of small, less exposure to the outside world. The analysis is a grain of truth, which is for parents of infants and young children, can play a vigilant role. Lee good mother Now the question is: child bile small character has been formed, the parents how to help him correct this weakness? psychologists believe that every person in the face of a strange environment, will show different degrees of tension, withdrawal and closure behavior. After a series of adjustments and guidance Some people will soon adapt to Those lively, generous children because they have adapted to this tension, and the timid child is not being adapted for various reasons. But now the expectations of parents of growing children, the children grow up performance a little bit out of their defects will be enlarged with a magnifying glass, quick success to the implementation of high-pressure the child, , strange, showing the tension and a loss is understandable, but mother was rude to scold him, this child's self-esteem is a big blow. father is still relatively reasonable, the proposed children Seeing these scenes, But his behavior is very blind: as long as there is entertainment to kids out. I wonder if he has not thought about, kids are really great people willing to participate in the entertainment Gongchoujiaocuo it? children have children thinking and points of interest, how will his adult of the world interested in? No wonder he turned to his very surprised to see the child placed in an unfamiliar environment, which will increase the psychological insecurity timid child, made him more timid. timid children develop self-confidence is very important. Lee will develop a good mother expertise as a child a way to enhance his self-confidence is also a bad idea. But the problem is, she knows the child is not interested in these strengths, but also forcing a child to do. in the parents of the fear feet, less and less confident. timid about the reasons for Lee Good thing there can not be ignored, that is, the lack of parental love. Li a good childhood brought by the grandparents and parents, some distant. my grandparents back home, parents No time to his meticulous care, but to pick him hourly; when his performance is not good, but the parents get yelled at; 5-year-old certainly will not understand their parents let him sleep alone in the care and thought, he will have a fear of abandonment. psychologists believe that in a loving environment, children grow up confident, lively, cheerful; in an environment of insecurity not love a child growing up, often interaction of personality disorder appears. children to overcome the weaknesses of the timid, the other hand, they are not letting their children the correct way of education become more and more timid hh (For more information, please visit monthly magazine) as his self-confidence to let him build a bold, is to make him cheerful . tend to have a wonderful bright children of life: 1, not too tight a grip on the child as a parent, of course, can not discipline the child without, left unchecked, but they may suppress the strict control over innocent innocence of children, the child's psychological negative health effects. might as well let the child at different ages have different options. only small children can enjoy the right to choose, and feel truly happy and at ease. 2, to encourage children to make friends mostly children of poor communication character of depression, because from time to time may suffer the torment of loneliness, do not enjoy the warmth of friendship. may wish to encourage children to make friends, especially friends the same age. itself, introverted, depressed child to be more appropriate to pay more cheerful optimism friends. 3, Church children get along with people who get along with others is more a bright inner world. Parents with children may wish to contact with different age, gender, personality, occupation and social status of the people, so they learn and get along with different types of people. Of course, the children First of all have to learn with their parents and siblings and relatives get along. In addition, parents themselves should get along well with others, be warm, honest, no snobbery humble, not talk behind other people at random, set a good example to children. 4, material to avoid the luxury life of luxury will make the material to produce a greedy child psychology, and the pursuit of material is often difficult to obtain another self-satisfied, greedy and that is why most of the root causes are not happy. On the contrary, children who lived a simple life often get a toy if it will play very pleased. 5, hobbies children if a child is only a hobby, it is difficult to maintain long-term perception of happiness. Just think: only when children watch TV at night without proper the program, my heart will definitely unhappy. On the contrary, if the child could not see to love reading television, read newspapers or play games, in which the same Coke. 6, children learn to guide the plight of the people, even nature can not be optimistic about everything goals, can not In addition, when seeking spiritual support, such as participation in sports, games, chat and more. 7, with moderate confidence with self-confidence and happiness is closely related to the formation of character. For a limited capacity due to mental or full of self-esteem of children, parents must be found strengths to flourish, and size up the situation to make more praise and encouragement. from parents and friends will no doubt help the child overcome the positive affirmation of self-esteem, foster self-confidence. 8, to create happy family atmosphere, family atmosphere, the relationship between family members, in will largely influence a child character formation. research shows that children are babbling before you can feel the mood and atmosphere around, even though he was not yet able to express. I can see a world full of hostility and even violence family, culture definitely not cheerful optimism of the children.
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tell your child why the timid cry 12, 2008 at 08:22 on the 17th month of fear is the most common emotional response is one of the individual to protect themselves from harm the natural attributes. but people would not be too timid with people properly, so that physical and mental health are affected. Some parents think that children of small, timid is normal, grown up on the big bolder. but more parents find it: the child class can not raise their hands to speak, afraid to participate in group activities; afraid to leave home, afraid of the dark, afraid of alone at home, not a person to sleep; little things would make him burst into tears; temper at home, particularly outside, just like a worm hh but honestly these problems is not a simple temper problem, and need a psychiatrist to help solve. General for children of all ages will have their own fear of thunder .2-year-olds are afraid, afraid of animals, fear of bathing, fear of parental leave, etc.; 5-year-old afraid of the dark, afraid of being alone; 6-year-old children fear most, they are afraid some sound, fear of ghosts, fear of abandonment, fear of sleeping alone, fear of wind and rain, and was bleeding, etc.; 7-year-old imagination is very rich, they were afraid of ghosts under the bed, afraid that someone broke into house at night, afraid war or some little things of life; eight-year-old children much less fear, they are mainly afraid of losing face and to be mocked. psychologists study found that childhood fear if not properly resolved, most likely produced in the adult psychological problems or psychological disorders. For example, children separated from their parents fear the terrorist will have the school; stammer are speaking of a particular class of laughter, after generating social phobia and so on. Why would a child fear? This and the child's own brain function, parents rearing the way. the child's response to the outside world through the sense organs to obtain the first information about the outside world, passing a comprehensive analysis of the brain, the child's response to the outside world through the sense organs to obtain the first information about the outside world, passing a comprehensive analysis of the brain , respond appropriately, then the command action. If the central nervous system is too sensitive to outside information amplification, respond appropriately, and direct action. If the central nervous system is too sensitive to outside information to enlarge, then the emotional response will be beyond the proper level. For example, the brain vestibular balance system is too sensitive, especially so children will be out of the emotional response should be. Do not be afraid climb, afraid to take the balance beam, motion sickness and other tactile system is too sensitive, will affect the relationships, others may be inadvertently touched him -, he was considered to play him. will appear to eat hand, picky partial eclipse, playing genitals, bad temper, love arouses other symptoms. Why is there sensitive to symptoms of the brain system? The reason there are inherent also acquired, including the mother, threatened abortion during pregnancy, emotional stress, pregnancy exercise less; birth, dystocia, cesarean section; the activities of their children after birth too restrictive to the child cuddle less and less affection. If the child has emerged the issue, you can also go through specialized psychological training to resolve. In addition, parents rearing issues, including the over-protection of children, the pain of minor injuries and little fuss, over-limit child interaction with the outside world, so that children are always living under the protection of their parents, to protect themselves seriously back. So, at home so, so long to boldly expose our children to hone life. long to boldly expose our children to live hone. the child's timid, in fact, just the strange guests or the environment arising from the response, though timid and not much of a problem, but the children too timid, can cause a series of problems, to prevent children from developing normal social interaction . a long time, timid child will exhibit introverted, quiet, lack of confidence, not assertive, etc., in the critical formative period of the child, parents should encourage children to cross this road of timid interpersonal barriers You may wish to try the following method: playing not injurious to play some quiet games, such as reading, painting, puzzles, building blocks and so on, than to play with and small partners, he may prefer to play alone. you should encourage him more outdoor exercise, more junior partner in the outdoors and playing games together. 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For children, also increased the confidence to speak. the sooner the students themselves more afraid of is if your child is timid, then you should reflect on the life in peacetime is not too much protection to the child? can do it too much protection and children's hands and feet shackled, a long time, the children love to explore new things become a. 2 years after the kids go to, you can begin to develop his self-care ability, from the beginning of their sleep, to their toilet, their grooming, dress himself, feed himself, pick up his toys. take care of themselves and strong children than those introverted, timid, then told his kindergarten teacher, allowing teachers to arrange more outgoing and bold children to play with him. able to do so, you can also plot a child to find outgoing neighborhood children, they often play together. timid child need to encourage some children Taitailielie, have done something wrong even to say a few words he has no problem. can be criticized timid child, you should pay attention to your wording. as far as possible to encourage the main , do not inadvertently hurt in the verbal children's self-esteem. usually, do not put kids in front of others, strengthening effect. a long time, the child will think he is a timid child. let the children as hiding behind others. because timid, he will lose the opportunity to show in front of others, an opportunity to show fewer, more timid children. 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His 3-year-old kindergarten, the grandparents went back home, and We have invited a good part-time day school Lee. find a good Li timid introvert in his 3-year-old half-time. I took him to attend a friend's wedding that day, to a lot of good general large and Li children, little boys, little girls together, chasing to catch up in time, fooling around, is very happy. may well look like a timid Lee rural children, took my clothes, head down, do not say anything . I will be good to the group of Li, the middle child, he was like a wooden-like, standing there motionless. After a child, there is a naughty boy ran to push him, he instinctively step back and threw me looking for help. I am very angry, yelled at him: go to public places. father of the baby has a different point of view. He said, the child may be timid because he had been with grandparents, and less opportunity to contact the outside world, now more than take him out, exercise it. This After his father as long as the entertainment, we must take him. to Lee are getting good performance let us down, his mouth was in front of outsiders do not even opened, and asked him, he only shook his head or nod, harm Debu acquaintance to comfort us: Grandma and Grandpa had to sleep, sleep with us now. book says 5-year-old child can separate bed. However, Li has steadfastly refused a person a good sleep, that is afraid of the wolf ran off with him. So I fell asleep while he will hold to his small room next door. He woke up at midnight, and wailed, I'm cruel whether he, his father can not bear, in turn he brought back to our bed. After this, God is always disturbed by the child to bed at night to wake up many times, each will reach out and touch woke up his father or me. I told him they really hate pity. timid and shy child, and the other children do not love, I think that may be the reason he was not confident. So, I gave him two specialty classes reported?? hosts art classes and small classes, I hope he has a specialty on the basis of the enhanced self-confidence. But a month later, the two Class teachers are implicitly told us: always refused to finish the painting a picture; let him learn to recite poems along with television, storytelling, stand-alone game Battlefield 2 Download find download _ know that he cried straight to sleep. we are angry, anxious to play his father also shot him. He cried to refuse to go back home to find my grandparents. Hearing this, I am even more angry. tell the truth, I think that the child's personality is his timid grandparents spoiled. They do not let the baby thing grandson to do it, always afraid he hurt too much, and closed on, in order to let the children listen, they did not take the demons of the illusory character less to frighten him. 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